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On Bailing

I like to consider myself a reasonably dedicated person. I make a commitment, I follow it through. There are sometimes mitigating circumstances to this. I don’t generally prefer to rely on others in my commitments, since I tend to find that others not only don’t...

On Evolving Love

Today is, was, would’ve been – technically is, our 14 year anniversary. We’ve always just known we’d be together since we started talking again – so we never regarded our wedding as anything but a piece of paper. (We were married 9 years ago tomorrow)....

On Open Giving

Why are we always keeping score?This was a massive issue in my marriage. I was so convinced that everything had to be equal. Tit for tat. You do this, I’ll do that. Divide up responsibilities and its more fair. One person isn’t doing all the work. It’s process. It’s...

On Difficult

“Sometimes the hardest thing and the right thing are the same” – The Fray It’s easy to choose easy, right? When things are comfortable and feel good – our brains and bodies want to rationalize why it’s fine to live in that comfort zone. We want to...

On Perspective

“Crying at all is not allowed. Not in my castle on a cloud.”I was on the way back from Miami today and I’m always genuinely impressed by the depth of the clouds in Florida. There are always layers of several different types – it can be raining from a...

On Flow

A few evenings ago I spent the night listening to an in-person talk from Deepak Chopra. During the talk he discussed the flow of energy in the universe and how we are vehicles for that energy.I also recently saw a spiritual person that I follow post that when you’re...